The "Church Home" Fantasy: the TRUTH about church that's hard to Accept
Below is a real comment on a blog post titled, " 5 Tell Tale Signs Your Church is geared to insiders not outsiders ". I'm going to answer the question at the end, since this person's observations illustrates what church is like for most: I attend a fairly large church that had some troubles in the past with the Pastor (among many other things) advancing his own agenda and his own family as staff. Again, there were other things. My problem is that, with that Pastor gone, it appears to be happening again. While in both cases, I would say, the Pastors children seemed to be godly Christians, but there is this underlying sense that they are using the Church to advance their own families. And then it creates this tight circle. It’s absolutely wonderful that a pastor can manage to care for a church and then have his children desiring to walk and work in the Church. So why does it feel so very wrong? My answer: Why it feels wrong is simple, but hard to accept. Look, we need ...