Losing my religion

  Mind control is real. Brainwashing is real. It isn't science fiction. It also isn't just an "excuse" for regrettable behavior.  MIND CONTROL IS REAL. BRAINWASHING IS REAL. Brainwashing means being "under the influence".   Under the influence of what?  Under the influence of an ideology, a charismatic leader, or a persuasive narcissistic person.  Another term for brainwashing is mind control . I know that one of the hardest things to do is to admit that you've been "under the influence" of another person, of a religion, or a group. We kick ourselves for being "dumb", "gullible", a "fool".   "Why did I let myself fall for this?" is a common question we ask ourselves.  Other times the people in our lives are asking these questions of us, which is devastating.  I've been there.  If you're new to this blog, I was a member of a church cult named the International Church of Christ or ICOC for almost 1...

As a member of the International Church of Christ (ICOC) cult for almost 12 years, I was a victim of spiritual rape. It can sound like a taboo term, but it makes sense when understanding what rape means.  Rape is not limited to sex. Rape is about power. Definition of  rape   1 :  unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception — compare  SEXUAL ASSAULT ,  STATUTORY RAPE 2 :  an outrageous violation 3 :  an act or instance of robbing or despoiling or carrying away a person by force

  I came across a post on social media from a member of a cult recovery and support group. This person wrote the following: "It is important to remember to not blame the ICoC for ALL of your problems. Your personal and inner problems originated with you before you entered. You won’t heal unless you realize this. Make no mistake the ICoC made all of your problems WORSE. Much of it came as they implied that those problems weren’t important-just focus on all “this” instead." I agree with this statement. I also think the person lacked a sense of awareness of who they were talking to. The audience in this group are survivors of spiritual abuse from a particular church cult [the ICOC]. Many in the comment section were triggered. I understand why. Saying "not to blame the ICOC for all of your problems" is triggering. I told the author of this post they could have said this better. And I stand by that. I shall explain. This "blame" statement infers that people ARE...

All cults are groups, but all groups aren't cults.  It's similar to how all judges are lawyers, but not all lawyers are judges. Lawyers can become judges. Groups can become cults. Here is the definition of a group that I found online: A group is a collection of people with some common characteristics or purpose. A group can consist of any number of people. People in groups interact, engage and identify with each other, often at regular or pre-determined times and places. * group definition taken from this page [ click here] What about cults? The first thing you see when typing "what is a cult?" or "definition of a cult" is what pops up, courtesy of google: A cult is a group or movement held together by a shared commitment to a charismatic leader or ideology. It has a belief system that has the answers to all of life’s questions and offers a special solution to be gained only by following the leader’s rules. It requires a high level of commitment from at leas...

If you ask the average person what a cult is, a religious cult comes to mind. In fact, it's safe to say that most people see cults as religious. However, part of why I publish content on cults is to educate people on what a cult actually is.  A cult is NOT a religion. A cult is a group dynamic.  A cult is not a religion. It is a group dynamic. Any group can become a cult. All it takes is a charismatic leader, loyal followers, a grand vision, and viola! You've completed the cult starter kit.  Any group can become a cult. People confuse a cult with the infamous religious cult. This is not true. There are also political cults, new age cults, business cults, self-help cults..... what makes a group a cult is how it functions . For example: cults recruit people into their group. A normal group is one you can join. Joining a group is different than being recruited into one. 

Restoration movements are a big part of modern day Christianity. As the literal word illustrates, "restoration" is about restoring something to its original state. In Christianity, beginning in the early 19th century, various members from different Christian groups and denominations decided they had drifted away from the basics of Christianity. It's the Christian version of "make America great again"   Restoration is about "making Christianity great again"...That's how all these "movements" and "revivals" come into being in the first place. And these "movements" are almost always dangerous. These movements all start the same way: individuals abandon their formal denominations with hopes of establishing a church based solely on the Christianity taught in the New Testament. With their belief in Jesus as the only model and the Bible as the only sacred book, they endeavor to “restore” the church to its original focus duri...

 The man in this video used to travel with gospel legend Fred Hammond on tour. He lived in the gospel world among many of the "A-listers" who are household christian names.  He's got some things to say. I think it matters because at some point what's in the dark must be brought into the light.  Also, let me be VERY clear that being gay is not a "sin", nor is it "bad". However, we have to understand that the hypocrisy of living a double life while publicly condemning homosexuality is wrong. It sends a horrible message to others who are LGB (Lesbian, gay, or bisexual). Eventually, we have to decide if we're going to use the bible as a determiner for non-heterosexual orientations or not.  More on that later. Here's the video. Enjoy.

 Gospel star Tye Tribbett does an impromptu rant on the gospel music industry. Once again, what's in the dark always comes into the light. I learned the truth about the gospel industry a few years back and well, there's nothing "gospel" about it.  From what I see, it appears Tye Tribbett is at least fighting to not sell his soul. It seems his heart is good as well as his intentions for making music. So this article isn't about him being a hypocrite. (Although you never know. All I can go on is the information available to me at the time).  All in all, he seems pretty genuine compared to many christian artists who are just doing this christian music thing because, for example, they couldn't do secular music.  One thing is for sure: they may be "christian" on stage but backstage it's the same as your favorite rapper or rock star. I'll leave it there😳 Sooner or later we're gonna have to learn that the christian belief system causes a kind o...

 ****This story is ongoing, so stay tuned for future developments. This article is, by no means, written to be fully comprehensive of all that is going on here**** Check out the story here * Picture: Ex-ICOC members Marcus Mesquitta, Justin Singletary, Arluah Wontan and Manny Chong I just caught wind of this situation and wanted to document it for historical purposes. The Boston Movement, the ground zero ministry that went on to launch what is now known as the International Church of Christ , or ICOC, is alive and well in Boston, Massachusetts as of 2021. Members of the church constantly dismiss those of us who publicly expose the spiritual abuse of the ICOC due to what they claim are old and outdated practices. In other words, the abuse and corruption of the church supposedly doesn't happen anymore.  Let me be the first to say that this is false. The true story I am referencing in this article is evidence that a leopard doesn't change its spots. Neither does a zebra change ...