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If you are alone in your post-cult or spiritual abuse /healing journey, feel free to reach out. 
I am honored to hear your story. 

As a cult survivor myself, I care about your story, your perspective, your pain, your challenges, your wins and your struggles.

I have a you tube page where I talk about these issues, share my own journey, and interview cult survivors who want to share their stories. 

Topics can be:
1) How you were recruited
2) How you escaped.
3) What lessons you learned
4) Struggles after leaving a cult or abusive church
5) Life after religion

If you don't want to share your story in an interview, but want to talk privately [in confidence],

my contact information is  


hch.urdbest@gmail.com

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